Being strong is not a trait everyone has. Most women are so vulnerable when in love. By being strong as a woman, does not necessarily mean you need to be emotionless or not be concerned or show that you don’t care about your partner. But being strong as a woman,when in a romantic relationship requires you to put your emotions in check.
Be more mature and civil on how you maintain and mange your various affairs with your partner, and with others around you.
And not necessarily being dramatic or loosing yourself all in the name of you being in a relationship.
Simply because you want to please your new partner or gain approval from your new partner.
Therefore, for you to be regarded as being a strong woman when in a romantic relationship has to do with a whole lot of factors.
Which ranges from your personal, emotional, and psychologically perspective towards how you relate with your partner. Things you hold so dear, and hold in high regards. And should never sacrifice for the sake of a Relationship
Hence, below are some core factors to enable you remember things you should never do for the sake of a relationship.
1. A strong woman does not forsake her friendship with others.
By being a relationship, should never warrant you forsaking your friendship with others just so to please your partner.
This should never be so. Being a strong woman who is in love, demands and requires that you are able to at least, to a very great extent mange your Relationship with your partner and your old friends.
Hence, once this is the opposite. It’s wrong, and most times considered toxic.
Therefore you should never allow your partner talk you into forsaking old friends who have been there for you all the while just so to please your partner. Once again,this is so wrong!!! And are considered one of inconsiderate behaviours in a relationship
2. A strong woman when in a romantic relationship would protect her financial independence
Being a strong woman, or a strong woman would want to protect her financial independence. By making sure she gets something doing and not being overly reliable on partner for her every need.
Therefore, you would prefer doing somethings for yourself, rather than being financially dependent on your partner for money every now and then.
Don’t get me wrong! As I woman, most times you would surely need the financial support of your partner.
Which is cool and it’s the right thing to do. But by not having any financial protection of your own is dangerous. And shouldn’t not be allowed to be so.
This is because, if as a woman you do not have the financial backings of your own. What will you do if the relationship with your partner eventually hits the rock. Or goes south someday? You will be the one at the loosing end.
Therefore, being a strong woman requires you having some financial independence you can easily hold on to or fall back on, when the need arises.
3. A strong woman when in a relationship would never try to control her partner
Most times when in a relationship, you might want to have your way by being manipulative either with your words or actions. But this attitude is most times regarded as being emotionally immature.
And it makes no sense and it’s completely absurd to make your partner always feel like he is walking on a minefield when talking to you. Strong people; ie women don’t try to bring others or their partners down.
But lift them up and make them feel free and relaxed to talk or share their views with them. And not the other way round. When you talk to your partner as a friend, it’s on of the core ways of being Romantic to your partner.
4. She would never give up on her dreams and goals
Why give up on your goals and dreams for the sake of a relationship? It makes no sense yeah?
Being a strong woman when in a romantic relationship requires your standing up for what you want. And doing all you can with or without the aid of your partner to get there.
Therefore, being regarded as a strong woman demands that you do not give up on things that drives you to be your best. You should never give up this for the sake of a relationship. NEVER!!!
5. A strong woman has a mind of her own
Yeah, it’s awesome to want to put heads with your partner as a woman to do the things he wants you to do. This is because, most times out of respect or the love you may have for him.
But never, I repeat never be a doormat for the cause of being a relationship. It would only leave you in the pit after a short while.
In which most times, you might not be able to come out of such pit. You partner would see the weakness in you, and would want to manipulate you every now and then.
Therefore, it’s very paramount that as a strong woman in a relationship, you endeavour to at least voice out how you feel, say what you think, and suggest ways you think things should be done every now and then.
And do not allow only your partner make all the decisions that concerns you or the Romantic Relationship you might be in.
6. Keeping her relationship issues together and not telling everyone about it.
Not everyone has the trait of keeping things private. But only a very strong person with emotional maturity would try as much as possible not to spill every issue about her relationship to either her friends or anyone who ask what’s up.
Hence, it’s paramount that as a strong woman in a relationship, you endeavour to keep and tell your Relationship issues only to those whom you trust.
And who you are certain they won’t go behind your back saying some stuffs about your relationship that you wouldn’t want to be all out in publics eyes.
7. She doesn’t compel her partner to always take care of all her needs for her
A strong woman when in Romantic Relationship,would try as much as she can to take care of some of her needs by herself because she’s financially independent. And would not want to put all the financial burden on her partner.
Moreso, she wouldn’t want a situation in which her partner would use it against her someday that he made her who she is.
Hence, she strives to live her life based on her expenses and not above it by living and purchasing things that are above her means of income or livelihood.
This is draining, and as a strong woman, it shouldn’t be allowed
8. A strong woman doesn’t give up on herself
It’s only a weak person or woman that would want to give up on herself when in a romantic relationship.
This is because, a weak woman most times puts in her all in the relationship. Hence, forgetting to love herself the way she ought to.
This should never be done. As a strong woman, you have to love yourself more than anyone can ever love you asides your mum.
And giving it your all inorder to be successful by willingly giving up on things that tends to weigh you down, which in this case, it also includes your partner.
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