Having true love from a man is not a thing that comes easily. Falling in love, and being in love with someone comes easy. Because these feelings are spontaneous and they fade off so quickly as a flash of light.
Because men most times, are more infatuated rather than having true love because they are moved easily by what they see, not by what they feel.
Therefore, having a man who truly shows you, true love, is not a thing that should be taken for granted. Because he must have taken his time to really analyze why you deserve true love from him. And why he should start acting and treating you right as the Queen you truly are.
You might presently be in a relationship, and you are not so certain if your partner truly loves you, or if he means the things he tells you and the ways he acts towards you.
This piece is to briefly state the different ways in which a man shows true love to the woman he loves.
1. A man who loves you, would treat you like the Queen you are.
It’s almost every woman’s dream to be treated like a queen. To be pampered and showered with loads of love and affection most especially by the man she so much loves. As a woman, you expect your partner, to make you feel special, to make you feel like the only woman who has the keys to his heart.
You expect him to make you feel like the next most important person in his life and to him. Once your partner makes you feel this way, you should know he loves you. And he is ready to do anything to make you continue being the Queen of his heart.
2. When a man truly loves you, he wants to make you be the best version of yourself.
It’s not enough to say I love you every now and then. But to prove it in words and deeds. A man truly loves you when he endeavors to always encourage you to be better than you were yesterday. He encourages you to look out for things you are passionate about and to go for them.
A man who truly loves you wants the best for you, and he is willing to go out of his way to make you become the better you for him and for the world at large.
3. A man who truly loves you, apologizes whenever he is wrong.
Men are naturally egocentric. And are sometimes self-centered because they want to be in charge and what to be seen by their partner as being the head without really minding if their partner in question is hurt or not.
Or if she is happy or unhappy they simply don’t care! But this is not the case with a man who truly loves you. When your partner loves you, he would never hesitate to apologize for anything he might have done or said that got you pissed off.
Even though you may want to act cranky sometimes when you’re having mood swings, he would want to come close, be soothing with his words, asking you what seems to be the matter? And ways to sort them out!
And if in any way, he was the one that got you pissed off. He would sincerely apologize, in order to make peace, and watch you smile.
4. He introduced you to his friends and family members.
Men do not allow or introduce every single lady they meet to their family members and to their friends. A man who truly loves you would only introduce you to his close pals by telling them you are the one.
That way, you are treated with much respect and you are allowed to feel free and safe with those in his circle as well.
5. A man who truly loves you, would not want to let you down.
Most times in life and in Relationships, things most certainly do not go as we plan and want. But nonetheless, it’s important to strive at least to keep to our words just for the sake of earning trust and for integrity sakes. This can also be applied to your Relationship.
Hence if a man loves you, if he says he is going to get you a Rolex wristwatch on your next birthday. He would do just that. Even though it might not be convenient for him.
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But because he wants you to be happy and trust him more than you already do. He would break his bank account just to get you that beautiful Rolex wristwatch for your next birthday. Isn’t this sweet and so loving on his part?
6. He spends quality time with you.
One of the things that strengthen any Romantic Relationship is the time you and your partner spend together in order to strengthen your bond and love.
When your man creates time, no matter how busy of a schedule he has in order to be with you and spend some quality time with you. Then you should know by having this conviction within you that he truly loves you.
Because he has 1,000 options to be anywhere else rather than being with you. But he chose to spend the time with you. This is also a great sign he truly loves you
7. A man who truly loves you would make his plans with you.
Men most times are secretive. And wouldn’t want to open up about their emotions or their plans. Hence, if your partner endeavors to at least share his crucial plans with you.
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Then it’s a sign he truly loves you. He is opening up to you because he has come in terms of trusting you enough with your opinions and views about important things.
Therefore, he talks to you about them to also hear your own views before moving on to taking action or to making the next move
8. He does not use your flaws against you.
Most times letting go of a past deed/s is not a thing every partner is mentally mature to do. But as a woman, one of the ways to also know he truly loves you. Is when he never for once no matter how angry he is uses the flaws from either your past or your present to taunt and make you feel less and sorry for yourself.
Therefore, he loves you and means his words when he promised never to use any of your flaws against you. That shows he loves you so very much.
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