Toxic people are all around us. They are like leeches sapping out all the good energy inside of you. It’s your choice to either allow them sap out the good energies inside you or to get rid of them inorder to have a more happier life.
Like the saying below says, and I quote;
You need to associate with people that inspire you, people that challenge you to rise higher, people that make you better. Don’t waste your valuable time with people that are not adding to your growth. Your destiny is too important.” Joel Osteen
Mind you, right from the moment when you were born. Up until this moment, at one point in time or another, you may or must have encountered some certain kind of people.
Who made you question yourself? They made you feel less of yourself, and at some point, their character made you ask yourself what are you even still doing by allowing them in your life?
We all deserve to be happy, you are not excluded. It’s a terrible thing on your self growth and happiness to be surrounded by those who will make you think less of who you truly are and make you the worst version of yourself. It’s so terrible!
Therefore, this piece is to pinpoint a list of toxic people to get rid of this minute, inorder for you to have a much happier life because you deserve to be happiness!
1. People who don’t care about you, but only want to use you.
You deserve genuine love, care, and attention from friends, and those around you. But once you sense this uneasiness within you, that your friends only pretend like they care, whereas they don’t .
They only tend to only pretend to care whenever there’s a thing from you to favour them, then you need to get rid of such people from your life.
Because if you don’t, they will continue to sap out your good energy. Depriving you from extending your kindness and goodness to those who truly deserve it. And when they are done, you will be left all high and dry.
Therefore, before such happens get rid of them now and never look back on getting back with them.
2. Those who always want to manipulate you.
The art of pleasing is the art of deception. Luc De Clapiers
Do you have some certain people in your life who always demand you please them. These set of people might be a spouse or someone who you are fond of.
Hence, they try to use the fact that you’re fond of them to try to manipulate you into pleasing them.
And those moments in which you try to please them, bending to their manipulative ways, you often times find out on the inside, that you are not quite happy.
If this continues more than expected, then it means you are being manipulated.
You are often trickled to play by their manipulative rules. You need to by all possible means, avoid such toxic person’s.
Once you realize you’re being manipulated, stand your grounds henceforth.
And don’t allow anyone manipulate you into being what you don’t want to be. And into doing what you’re not comfortable with at all.
3. Get rid of toxic people who are never there when you need them.
What’s the point of having friends or set of person whom you cannot rely on for anything? It’s of no use yeah?
It’s paramount that those in your life should also be adding one value or another to you life.
And if it’s otherwise, it’s high time to let them go. So that you can focus more on those who really matter and who are always there for you both on your high and low moments.
4. Those who tends to always criticize you.
Inasmuch as, criticism is a stepping stone to make you see your flaws and to make you better.
It’s quite draining when such person’s never see the good in you. They never get to appreciate you for the little steps and acts you take to be a better person or to make them happy.
When the criticism happens more often than normal, it can be so draining. Therefore, for your own peace of mind and happiness, it’s better you get rid of them as fast as you can.
5. Those who will never accept that, they are wrong.
This can be so annoying. Like why do something wrong and instead of admitting to it and take responsibility, you’d find such toxic people pushing the blames on you.
By saying it’s your fault. Like you did this and that, that was why they did what they did.
Hence, when this happens more often in your life than normal, then such a person or people don’t deserve a place in your life.
You need to get rid of such toxic people/person’s today. Because the more they lingered with their irresponsible attitude.
By pushing the blames and not taking responsibility for their wrong actions. You tend to be dragged into their mess and this can be so overwhelmingly annoying.
Therefore, get rid of such a person or people today. So that you can be at peace with yourself and be happier at least.
6. Toxic people who are selfish.
There might be some certain people in your life who prefer always taking from you rather than giving.
Who prefer you doing all the work and they would just sit back and receive whatever it is they expect you to always give them. This is toxic!
Life is all about give and take. This is the only way there can be a sort of balance or some kind of equilibrium.
But when this pattern is the opposite, it only wears the one who is always giving. And this can most times leads to depression, and some psychological trauma. Which can be bad for you on the long run.
Therefore, such toxic person’s needs to be gotten rid of from your life, inorder for you to have a more happier life.