“I never dreamed about success. I worked for it.” —Estée Lauder
If we all have our ways, we would want to sit by the seashores and daydream about all the amazing things we do want in life. And have it delivered to us on a platter without much effort or even lifting of our fingers. But as the saying goes, if wishes were horses, beggars would gladly climb on them.
And life, as simple as it looks, is not a bed of roses. It requires you to work so hard, as your entire existence depends on it before you can get what you want. Each day when you wake up, what is that one desire that is always on your mind? What is that one thing that keeps you up late at night? Do you wish and imagine being so successful? What is that one thing, that would make you feel so happy, and fulfilled?
How much do you want to be successful? What sacrifices are you willing to make in order to be so successful? Have you ever asked yourself what the keys to success in life are, and the ways you need to apply them in order to have a good life you dream and desire? Whatever your desires of success are, you know it is one thing to dream it, and it is another thing to work towards it.
As the above quote stated, you cannot only dream of success, you need to work towards it.
Over the years, a whole lot of people have different definitions of what success is. The former president of the united states, Barack Obama once said:
Success isn’t about how much money you make. It’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.”
For Barack Obama, success is way more than having money. It’s about making a great difference in the lives of people and leaving a good lasting legacy. Hence, as for you, what would you define success to be? What would make you feel whole and successful?
Your idea of being a success and living the life you want might not necessarily be like the way Barack Obama thought success in life to be like. Yours might be having more power or fame. Perhaps, being unstoppable, and a whole lot of other things. Therefore, as you ponder on these, I would like to share the tips on the keys to success in life with you.
1. Define What You Want Out Of Life.
What do you want out of life? Do you want to walk on this earth without creating a difference and leaving a lasting legacy? What good thing do you want to be known for? Do you need to be a good role model to others?
At the moment, what is that one thing that makes you feel so happy whenever you think about it? You sitting down and defining what you want out of life would at least help you know where you are, and the steps you need to take to reach your desired destination and achieve the success you desire.
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2. Set A Concrete Plan.
Everything in life is all about planning. When you fail to plan properly, then you are planning to fail. It is just like you wake up in the morning without having an accurate plan on what you want to achieve for the day.
When you don’t plan out what you want out of the day, you will realize that your day would not be fulfilled. You will either just be in bed almost all day, lazing about watching Tv, or replying to every chats notifications that pop up on your phone, hence not really achieving much for the day.
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Therefore, when you apply this into your entire life, you would realize that your life if care is not taken by you, you would be a complete failure or disaster in the long run because you did not plan accurately, and stuck with the plan.
Although, in life most of the time, there are usually unforeseen events that would make your plan not go as mapped out. But when such moments happen, you need to take a pause, restrategize your keys to success, and set out again.
3. Know Your Distractions.
In your day-to-day life’s activities, there could be things that would want to distract you. This could either be the Tv, your mobile phones, the social media, your close friends and family, or a whole lot of other things.
These distractions if not kept in check could either make you lose focus on the things you want to achieve or make you waste precious time and drag you back from achieving the things you want to achieve.
Hence, a key to success in life is you pointing out, and knowing what your distractions are, curb and managing them. This way you can keep a balance of the other activities in your life and stay focused at the same time.
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4. Be Disciplined.
You cannot go far in life if you are not disciplined. Discipline requires that you stay committed, and resilient to the things you want no matter the odds and the difficulty you need to go through in order to achieve what you want out of life.
To achieve your goals, and be the successful person you so want, and dream of becoming, you need to stay so focused which was earlier discussed in point 2, you need to stay committed, and above all disciplined in being the person you want to be, come hell or high waters.
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5. Manage Your Procrastinations.
Procrastination is the thief of time. How you would love to just while away time, and keep posting all the things you want to do for later. But when you keep doing this, over time, you’d realize that as each passing day goes by without you achieving much.
Like that point whereby you outline all the things you want to do, and you find yourself procrastinating and putting them all for later. Know that, the more you put it up for later, you end up not doing those things at all, or you find yourself being under pressure to meet up with a deadline for it.
Therefore, in this key of success in life, you need to manage your procrastination, by mapping out the things you want to achieve on a daily basis, you need to make sure that you do not overly layout so many activities for the day in order not to feel overwhelmed by the things you want to do. Know your distractions as earlier mentioned, and follow the steps stated, and stay focused on achieving what you want to achieve.
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6. Learn A Good Paying Skill.
Education, as it is, has evolved beyond what it was years ago. Now as it is, asides from you getting a degree from college, it’s not enough as to if you will be the success you want to be.
Therefore, it is paramount that you sit down, learn a good skill or more if you can, and harness it into something of great value. When you do this, and put in time and effort into being good at it, you never can tell which will pave way for you, make you fulfilled, and have the kind of success you desire. Here is a list of good-paying skills you could learn, and improve your life in turn.
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7. Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone.
As the saying goes, nobody achieves much by just being comfortable at a spot and not wanting to leave their comfort zones. One of the keys to success in life is making a conscious decision to step out of what makes you so comfortable and make a conscious effort to try something new.
For if you don’t go out there, by leaving your comfort zone, trying that new stuff you have been wanting to achieve, you may never know what you are good at, and how successful you can be with it.
8. Invest In Yourself.
Life is all about giving and taking, if you don’t put in time, effort, and stay committed to the things you love, cherish and desire, how will you achieve the good things you want in Life? At the moment, do you desire to be a good singer? Or do you desire to be a good cook? As earlier stated in the opening quote, you don’t have to only dream but you need to work hard for your dreams, and goals to come into reality.
Therefore, if you need to watch videos on Youtube on how to be a good singer then go ahead. Or is it taking culinary lessons on how to prepare both local and continental dishes, go ahead and do so. The keys to success in life, all depend on you to take that step today and invest in yourself, and gradually, you’d transform into the success you crave for.
9. Believe You Can.
Do you know that if you doubt yourself, you can’t really achieve much of anything in life? I don’t know whatever you might have been through either mentally, emotionally, or psychologically. But whatever it might be, learn to let go of your past, for they don’t define you. It’s what you make out of your trials, mistakes that matter. And irrespective of whatever you might have gone through, you need to let go and don’t allow the shackles of the past to hold you down.
Therefore, on your road to success, you should be your number one motivator, and cheerleader. If you don’t believe in what you want, and the things you want to achieve, then no one else would. More so, in this key of success in life, you need to so believe in yourself and all the things you have dreamed of achieving and stay firm in achieving them.
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10. Take The Step.
It is one thing to know the keys to success in life, and it is another thing to take a step, and put all that you have read so far into action. Like I earlier stated, everything depends on you. If you don’t take that first step, no one would help you take it. You need to make that conscious effort today, to start writing that book, to start that project, and be committed to what you have mapped out for yourself.
11. Be grateful.
You might be wondering what can you possibly be grateful for? Well, you have a whole lot to be grateful for. For the fact that you are eager to succeed, and the fact that you so desire the keys to success in life, and you are also making plans to put these points into action today. It is a whole lot to be grateful for, and as you are grateful for each small win you have and make, it will aid you in achieving other better things you so desire out of life.