10 Ways on How to Be a Better Lover in Bed

Lov3making with the right person you love and who loves you in return is so amazing, and to achieve that, you must be a better lover in bed.

Irrespective of if you are an expert or if you are a novice, with the right person with whom you have the same connection, int1macy is heavenly.

But regardless of if you are a pro or a novice, it is paramount that you are a better l0ver in bed; this is important because it helps strengthen the love you and your lov3r have for each other.

Hence, if you are an expert or if you are a novice, there is room for improvement anyway. Therefore, below are ways how to be a better l0ver in bed.

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Ways to Be a Better Lover in Bed

Here are ways to be a better lover in bed;

1. Let Go of Your Insecurity

Are you afraid of what your lover might think or say about a part of your body you are not proud of? Hence, because of this, you are not free to even express all your int1mate emotions when with your partner.

This is wrong, for if your partner truly loves you, he/she should be able to love and accept you for you.

If this is the opposite, then you shouldn’t be with a lover who doesn’t love your b0dy for the way it is.

2. Know Your Partner’s S3xual Needs

Being a better lover to your partner also entails that you know what your partner’s desires are. 

Do not just assume things, this is where a whole lot of l0v3rs get it wrong. You being a better l0v3r to your partner, requires you also be unselfish and ask your partner what he/she likes, what he/she would like you to improve on, etc.

3. Do Not Neglect Your Own Pleasure

Inasmuch as you want to be the better l0v3r to your partner, it is important that you do not neglect your own pleasure while at it.

Ensure to also, tell your partner what tuЯns you 0n, how you like being k1zz3d, touched, etc.

4. Take It Easy

With regards to f0Я3play, take as much time as is needed. “Most l0v3rs benefit from taking it easy. The core objective of f0Я3play is so that the both of you enjoy each other to the fullest.

Do not rush the f0Я3play or the oral s3x or the p3n3tЯation; take each moment slowly and enjoy every bit of it.

This way, your partner would look forward to having an interesting, int1mate moment with you and not fantasize about having it with someone else.

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5. Talk to Your Partner

Talking to your partner about his/her s3xual fantasies would actually help you and your partner understand each other’s fantasies better.

Does your partner love being k1zzed all over, or does he/her love less f0Я3play? The knowledge you derive from your conversation with your partner will help you know what he/she expects from you.

6. Act as a Learner

Perhaps, you are a pro when it comes to int1macy, you need to remember that it is important that you act as a learner by trying new things and not being streamlined to just doing the same thing over and over again.

You could change positions, change the number of times you mak3 l0v3 weekly, you could use vibЯat0rs to help your l0v3r reach cl1max easily, use s3x t0ys to add spice to your relationship, and ask your l0v3r what things they would like to try out, and spice up your love life?.

7. Talk to Your Partner During Int1mate Sessions

What could be worse than just lying like a log of wood and allowing your partner to do his/her thing while you are just a spectator? This kills the vibe of your relationship.

To be a better l0ver in bed, you need to be free to talk to your partner by asking him/her if the way you are going about the whole touching, k1zz1ng, p3n3tr@tion, 0ral s3x is being enjoyed or not.

This will help you know if you are going too fast, if you both are on the right track, or if you need to try something different.

8. Prepare Your partner’s Mind

Prior to when you want to go down with your partner, you could leave short notes, be very romantic, ask your partner what he/she would like you both to try in b3d, and m@ke the l0v3 moment sweet and passionate.

Doing this prior to when you and your partner want to be int1mate, would actually make your partner see you as a better l0ver, and will always be looking forward to a mind-blowing passionate moment with you.

9. Be N@ughty

Do not wait until you are in the mood before you s3x chat or share your s3xual fantasies with your partner.

During the day, you could send your l0v3r love chats, make him/her feel relaxed, tell your l0v3r how beautiful/handsome they are, and a whole lot of other sweet and sincere things you love about your partner.

This would actually keep you both closer int1mately and long to have passionate moments with each other.

10. Live a Healthy Lifestyle

To be a better l0v3r to yourself and your partner requires you to live the healthy lifestyle you can.

This requires you to eat well, exercise, and keep a good mental and emotional life. Remember that you cannot be a better l0v3r in bed if you are unhealthy.

FoЯ3play, 0ral s3x, p3n3tЯati0n, having 0Яgasm, requires a whole lot of energy from you. And also, do not overwork yourself out because you want to be the champ; always remember to keep a balance.

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Final Thought

The pathway to a rewarding life is a continuous improvement process.

We have outlined ways to be a better l0ver in bed, but as said earlier, it would require hard work.

We hope you found this article useful; if you did, please share it with your family and friends on all your social media platforms.

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